About Me

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I am a sex positive educator, performer, musician, writer, producer, and radio host. I am always looking for interesting people who have intelligent and informative things to say about sexuality (in all its many forms) to be on my show, so if you or someone you know would be a great guest, do let me know! I am into being very open about what you are into and exploring your desires and fantasies, as long as people are being clear, honest, safe, and above all, good to themselves!

Monday, February 27, 2012

Im Getting Better @ Updates! I think i can (repeat)

So much is happening, so much has happened, and i never know with journal writing where I should start. If I was more diligent about writing it would be easier to keep on top of it, but I keep waiting too long then needing to play catch up. OH BOY!
But I am now about to link my blog to my website, so i will be that much more inclined to write. And once I get my writing ass in gear, I will be able to take advantage of some of the many opportunities that lie at my fingertips, under my keyboard.
its not like i havent done any writing per se in the last year. Ive actually been super busy with writing classes and workshops. Ive also written a few articles for the local paper, the Mountain Express. Now if only I would finish a few more they would get published....
Ive developed some awesome new classes this past year and am doing them all around the region. I recently traveled to New Orleans and did some classes down there for a local kink group. In the next few wks I will be going to the Polyamory Conference in Atlanta, and then later in early April i will be presenting at Frolicon for the 2nd yr in a row.
Life is pretty good and I am grateful that I am able to spread the word of sex positivity to an eager audience!

Thursday, October 28, 2010

Setting the Intention

All day long I think of things that I could write about, things I want to mention, thoughts I want to remember, etc. Sometimes later in the day, when I can actually get to it, I dont exactly feel inspired. And then I lose it. So this is part of my new pact (hopefully). Just doing it!
I get so obsessed with how somethings done that I dont get it done, and then I wish I had it later. I dont want to miss another moment due to indecision or lose anything else to the process. I'll just go with it, put it out there and realize it doesnt matter so much, as long as it exists.
Last night I went to an interesting talk at my friend Leanna's, who is a sex researcher. The Science of Sexuality!
The talk was on Polyamory, and was facilitated by Deborah Anapol. I had met Deb over the weekend where we both involved with the EcoSex Symposium, and Id heard of her over the years due to her work around Polyamory. She is a PhD, as well as a writer, coach, and facilitator, as well as cute and petite! I plan to have her on The Spycey Buzz one of these days.
Ive had a great time on this trip to LA. Ive met so many amazing sex positive people, who are really working towards doing something to spread the awareness of exploration of sexuality without shame. AND, so many of the people Ive been meeting are such NICE people. I guess I will repeat this often as I have felt scapegoated many times over the years, and have felt like I was made out to be a demon because of my openness about sexuality. Which really doesnt make sense! Dont you think that if someone is interested in sexuality 6that they are more nice?? Makes sense to me....
Off to relax a bit more, and start looking for a nun's habit! Turns out I will be performing in SF this weekend at a fundraiser for The Citadel, a fetish dungeon. Lucky me....and lucky them! They're going to be learning about the holy lessons of B.D.S.M.!

Monday, October 25, 2010

Inspiration Moves Me!

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Sunday, October 25, 2009

Something About Me

I was lucky to be blessed with loving, openminded parents who instilled some wonderful values in me. Communication, creativity, community, & personal responsibility have always been high on my list. I was guided with confidence & non judgment, so was given the freedom to paint my own portrait & choose the unbeaten path. Instead of the traditional "normal", I spent time traveling, playing music, and getting to know myself meeting people from all walks of life. I’ve learned from experience, but thanks to my voracious appetite for reading, as well as my inquisitive and knowledge thirsting nature, am book smart too.
Something that really thrills me is to create and collaborate. I like to sing, write, perform, laugh & laugh! I like to have long intense conversations. I like to take things naturally and go with the flow. I like to make fun of myself and other people I am close to, so you decide if I’m laughing with you or at you. I am not easily shocked, but easily amused. I love to be silly! I like to talk about the things that really matter in life, and be willing to go deep into the heart of the matter. I like to learn more everyday. I look for deeper meanings and opportunities for growth. I love to share! Underneath it all, I have the soul of a gypsy, & there’s nothing that thrills me more than a good smoke by a good fire w/ a full moon. Mother nature is the most beautiful Mother of them all….
I am outgoing, witty, & not usually shy. Sometimes people dont see how sarcastic I am, or how sweet I am, or how oxymoronic! I think I'm one of those people that people can misread. Because of that, Im constantly surprising people! I can be pretty wacky when Im in the mood, but when you get to know me, you see that there is more to it than that. I think I often get mistaken for the crazy party girl because of my openness around sexuality. Once others get to know me, they see how down to earth I am, responsible, sane, etc.
I enjoy inspiring others, & I will always do my best to support those I care about. I love to make friends and it gives me a thrill (nachess my Jewish Grandma would call it) to make connections between others. They say I have a good head on my shouldahs but I am always trying to use my powers for good. Despite my large balls, I can be all about you! As for myself, I have become committed to only doing things that are pure to who I am, so that way there are never any regrets. If Iam alwys doing what I want in every moment, then I can never look back and wish I hadn't done something. The important thig is to be clear in each moment as it comes. Im a firm believer in doing what you love, creating your own reality, and enjoying each moment in the present moment that you're living in it. When it comes down to it, I strive to be a very true and genuine person who you can count on to be there. Sometimes I may say things that could shock someone, but being that you could say the same for anyone, I think its important to look at why you are shocked and what you can learn from the scenario. What I can tell you is that when the shit hits the fan, & I’ll be rolling with the changes and ready with the TP to help clean it up. I’ve been on this quest for a little while now & I’d love to share my stories with you. Let’s make some new ones!
I enjoy people who are willing to be open about who they are, what they want, and will go for it, even when it's scary. I like freaky folks who live, eat, screw, and play, outside of the box...or were never inside of it at all!